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Unread 08-22-2010, 10:14 AM   #1
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The Rebbes advice needed on teens at risk?

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When a child turns 18 and wants to lead a different lifestyle then one that has been imbued into him or her decides to live with the parents. When does a parent put their foot down and instill certain policys in the house and when do they look the other cheek.

Is encouraging, manipulating yada yada a boy who dislikes going to minyan to go never the less shabbos and Yom tov for shacharis ( father goes every day always has).
Will it just make a bad situation worse or will it make them realize the beauty of it all in the end?
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Unread 08-22-2010, 07:30 PM   #2
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You need to discuss this with someone who knows and understands the personality of the boy.
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Unread 08-24-2010, 08:01 PM   #3
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Is there no one on here who has dealt with a similar scenario?
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Unread 08-24-2010, 10:45 PM   #4
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I'm sure there are, but in chinuch what works for one child won't work for another.
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The other problem is he/she is not a child anymore.......
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Who--the person agent is referring to? The two of you must be related!
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