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Unread 10-20-2009, 06:04 PM   #17
emes m'eretz
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See post #9, which also incorporates what you wrote in post #8.

There is benefit in the general bond.

And there is benefit in the particular reasons.

To use the above example:
There is benefit when he brings the flowers just because she wants him to.
And there is benefit when he tries to undertand when she explains how the colors and the intricate design make the flowers so beautiful.
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